Fight For Our Love

now at 11:01 am im writing about this topic.. love. what is love actually? what's your opinion to define love? is it just to let out our desire for love only? or is it something wonderful that only a person who dares to go deep in it will see it? In my perspective, love requires courage, sacrifice , patience, trust and honesty.. these 5 elements are important to start a love relationship.. if u dont have one of these, dont take a step to it.. one of the element that complete other elements is courage.. if u have that.. u will have all of that..  because u will brave to sacrifice, brave to be patient, brave to trust your partner and brave to speak the truth.. see? just with courage u get to do all the elements.. but of course its not easy.. its easy to talk than do it.. right? in love, u will have so much test..for example, your parents trust, your parents plan and stuff, third person that will ruin your relationship, your bestfriend that like your partner pfft yea its funny.. but for today, i just wanna talk about the obstacles from our parent. we as their child need to follow their instruction as long as tak bercanggah dengan agama. okay thats cool. but we are talking about love stuff here. marriage and suff. we've been hear a lot about marriage arrangement right? where our parents choose a person that need to be with us by hook or by crook. even when we already have the love of our life. but there are also a kind of parents that dont trust about love in highschool life. yea its true orang cakap cinta monyet la time zaman sekolah ni.. but what if.. out of 1000 people.. theres 2 person that completely love each other and really serious about their future and will take care of each other no matter what? do they need to be the victim ? disebabkan oleh 998 orang yang tak serious about their relationship and like to change partner, these serious 2 person need to sacrifice? what a nonsense.. memang Allah tentukan jodoh kite.. but is it wrong to have a confidence that the one we love now will be our future? instead of memilih and menunggu dan mencari, why not u usaha? usaha untuk stay with your partner..Allah takkan bagi sesuatu kalau hamba dia tak usaha.. so? lainlah kalau u dah usaha then memang takde jodoh tu cerita lain.. tu dah masuk bahagian reda.. but selagi ada chance.. why not take the chance? see deeper .. dont judge by ur experience.. cause tak semua orang akan lalui bende sama.. maybe akan lalui bende sama but with different way and solution. fikir and hadam. thats all from me today.. chau

-xoxo D