Friday, May 24, 2019

moving on

so today.. at 9:46 pm.. im writing about this topic today.. about moving on.. what is actually moving on? is it just spesifically for those who want to move on from their ex? or their loved ones? is it moving on is something that u need to find someone new? someone new to help u forget the old one? woah hold on.. tu dah salah sangat tho.. why? its like u used someone to make u forget the old one.. basically.. this topic is really general u know.. cause tak spesifik pon untuk one particular issue like lovers.. it can be moving on about your life, moving on for the better future, or moving on to make yourself stronger. but actually.. is it their fault? is it their fault to move on? no. but the way they move on is it correct way or the opposite of it? from my experience.. moving on is something that u will achieve if u never look back again.. its like when someone leave you.. or someone make you hurt.. or the life are so cruel to u.. and you want to move on.. but u keep remembering things from past.. so dari situ u takkan dapat moveon.. secondly, because u keep blaming yourself or blaming other people.. this world are never be fair to us.. thats the fact.. but who are we? if u not forgiving yourself, then who else ? try to accept your mistake..people make mistake.. who are we to not forgive them? trust me.. if you learn to accep things.. you will be able to 'move on'. u know in my case.. i fell in love with this guy..but he did something that i can never forget.. one day he came back.. saying things that can make me fell in love again.. but he still did a same mistake.. so i feel like.. what do i do wrong to accept this kind of situation? maybe i did something wrong back then.. but all i can think right now is.. forget him.. dont turn back.. cause if i do.. i will always want to know what happen to him and it will make my life much more harder. so all i want to say to u out there.. we, human, always make mistake.. but.. we need to LEARN from the mistake and try to avoid the same mistake to be happen again. try to aim your goals .. and try to achieve them no matter how hard it is.. try and never giveup. at one point.. u will be able to completely "MOVE ON"

-XOXO,D